migration/multifd: Unify RAM_SAVE_FLAG_MULTIFD_FLUSH messages

RAM_SAVE_FLAG_MULTIFD_FLUSH message should always be correlated to a sync
request on src.  Unify such message into one place, and conditionally send
the message only if necessary.

Reviewed-by: Fabiano Rosas <farosas@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: Peter Xu <peterx@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20241206224755.1108686-5-peterx@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Fabiano Rosas <farosas@suse.de>
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